The most “wanted” lady in the world has told single women what the most common mistake they make while dating is.
A model from London has called herself the “world’s most wanted girlfriend” after getting an amazing 5,000 applications from guys who want to date her.
When 27-year-old Vera Dijkmans said she was taking applications from possible suitors, it caused a lot of talk online.
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But even though there were a lot of responses, only three males matched her strict requirements.
A lot of people were interested in Vera, but she never found love.
She is still a very popular person, with more than seven million followers on several social networking sites.
She is now giving ladies dating advice and pointing out frequent blunders they make when looking for love.
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Vera tells Mail Online that it’s important to have self-respect and set clear limits.
She says that women should have greater respect for themselves and be honest about their limits with males.
She thinks that guys should work hard to date by organizing fun things to do together, like going out to dinner or doing something fun.
She says you shouldn’t agree to late-night invitations to “come over” or go on dates when he hasn’t put any effort into planning ahead.
Vera won’t go on dates that aren’t well-planned or thought out, therefore it’s important for her to set high standards.
This is a strict guideline for me. If they don’t come up with a great idea for a first date, I won’t go. He should also give you a gift.
Vera says that the gesture is more important than the price tag, even if she has gotten expensive gifts like designer clothes from Louis Vuitton and Hermès.
A bunch of flowers would be fine too. It doesn’t have to be something big, but it demonstrates that he cares about your time and company.
She strongly believes in the “princess treatment” and tells other women to expect the same: “I want the princess treatment because that’s what I deserve, and you do too.”
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Along with giving dating advise, Vera tells women about warning signs to look for in possible partners.
She says, “You shouldn’t put up with a guy who only texts you after 10 p.m. because it shows that he doesn’t respect you.” She says to cut off people like that right away.
Vera also advises against males who make false promises or treat women differently than men.
She also says that a partner should be clean and responsible with money.
That’s another big red flag for me if they don’t take care of their hygiene and money.
Vera is sticking to her guns even though she has gotten some criticism, mostly from ladies who don’t agree with her techniques or are jealous.
A family member who has been looking for a man for a long time wouldn’t talk to me after I sent in the boyfriend application. She said it was shameful.
She also tells a story about a time when a makeup artist wouldn’t help her since they found out that her boyfriend followed Vera on social media.
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But she also gets a lot of support from women who look up to her for her confidence and high standards.
She said that thinking about the thousands of applications she got, “I’m not going to lie, it felt great to have so many men want to be my boyfriend.”
Vera says that her appeal to a wide range of people comes from her honesty.
Still, she won’t settle for anything less than what she deserves. She looks for knowledge, humor, responsibility, and financial stability in a spouse.
She says, “Right now, I’m not looking for a boyfriend, but I’m keeping my options open.”
I’m just really picky, and I need a guy to be almost perfect. I don’t think I should have to give up my wants. I’d rather be single until I find the right guy.
She knows that getting attention feels wonderful, but she has learnt that garnering attention from men is not the most essential thing in life.
